As soon as he entered the bookstore he plopped down in a chair…and I could tell immediately…there was something different there.
I noticed this about him…once into the store he walked…
He wasn’t there to buy a book…he was there to talk.
He spoke with anyone who walked by as if they were his congregation…
not just a simple hello…how are you…but an entire conversation.
I noticed anyone (and that was everyone) who stopped to talk with him a while…
young or old it didn’t matter…they left wearing a smile.
When there were no more customers in the store to talk to…at least none that he could see…my smile met his…and the next think I knew…the conversation turned to me.
It wasn’t really a conversation…which at first I found a little shocking…
as I did all the listening…and he did all the talking.
One thought would lead to another…about his family, his friends…his wife…
and in a little less than an hour…I knew the story of his life.
I know his wife made the bag he was carrying that now sat upon his knees…
I know the photos on that bag represented some of their favorite memories.
I know his name is Herman…he was born in Ecuador…
I know he grew up on the north side of Chicago…along Lake Michigan’s shore
I know what college he attended…where he met his wife, I know some of their hopes and fears…I know they lived in the house pictured on his bag for over 20 years.
I know how Covid left a hole in his heart…an emptiness in his life…
when first it took his mother…then two months later…took his wife.
I know that he was lonely…and that’s why that night he chose to stay…
I know how loneliness reminds us of those who once brightened up our days.
I know I enjoyed listening to his stories…his family history…nonetheless
I also know I’ll never know the depth of his loneliness.
But I hope by sharing his memories with me and all the customers that night in our store…
at least for a little while…he wasn’t as lonely anymore.