WHEN NAP TIME RETURNS

 

Our great-granddaughter visited our cabin the other day…

When she arrived she woke up from the nap she took along the way.

It made me reminisce about my napping days…

back when I was young and I also had a flair

like Violet, for taking a nap…anytime and anywhere.

I imagine, like me, there will come a day…

as a toddler bouncing on Mom or Dad’s knee

when nap time comes….she will go…albeit reluctantly.

  

And there will come a time as the days and months and years all blend

When she reaches a certain age…and her need for naps will end.

There will be so much to do each day in this world she’ll be unwrapping

She’ll have so much time to play…there will be no time for napping.

Then she’ll have school, a job, 

and in time

perhaps a family with many promises to keep.

She’ll have no time to take a nap…she’ll barely have time to sleep. 

She may wish at these time…with perhaps her own baby on her lap

that she had less time for work…and more time for taking naps.

As I waved to Violet as they drove away…

I thought…I’m sure she won’t get far

before she once again takes a nap in the back seat of Ali’s car.

And how lucky I am to have another wonderful experience 

a Pop-Pop and great-granddaughter can share

for I have now returned to taking naps…anytime and anywhere

It’s a 45 minute drive back to Asheville…provided Ali doesn’t speed…

Which is perfect because a 45 minute nap…

is exactly what this Pop-Pop needs.

ANOTHER PERFECT DAY

 When I think about it…nothing special happened yesterday…

Or did it?

We heard from all our family and some friends 

even those who are far away…

The trees and mountains were alive

with the colors of the Fall.

And from our porch up in the mountains

we could hear the chickadees call. 

We had lunch with our daughter and great-granddaughter

where we sat on the floor…and played.

We had quiche for lunch (Violet ate bananas)

followed by a chocolatey dessert that Deborah made.

We did a little shopping…watched TV

headed off to bed…then…as is our way

we kissed each other good night

and thanked each other…for a perfect day.

I’ll share this happy fact of life we’ve learned along the way

Each day itself may not seem perfect

but there is something perfect in each day.

Which is why every night…before we fall asleep we always find a way

to give each other a kiss..and thank each other for a perfect day.”

For us… what makes a day perfect is easy to decide…

It’s feeling love within our hearts…it’s existing…side by side.

The perfect life is out there for anyone who can find a way

to realize a perfect life…begins…with a perfect day.

And if you can find perfection in each day…

despite life’s troubles and strife…

before you know it you’ve strung so many perfect days together…

you have a perfect life.

EVERY DAY BLIND DATE

 

I have a special relationship that begins each morning 

after the moon has set. 

What makes this relationship special?

It’s with a bird I’ve never met.

She’s the first bird of the morning..

with whom my life is intertwined…

the early bird who begins to sing

in the silence the owls and crickets leave behind.

With all the other birds still sleeping…

their heads snug beneath their wings

this bird I’ve never seen before

each day begins to sing. 

I’ve often wondered in the dark…

how does this bird know…

the morning is approaching

before the sun begins to glow?

But she does…her instincts must be strong…

and I imagine she’s as happy singing…

as I am to hear her song.

This is why after waking I hurry outside

because I don’t want to be late…

and miss the morning song

of my everyday blind date.

THE KINDNESS MOB

 

We’re sad when we see people hiding behind the anonymity of the internet…

spewing words of loathing, animosity and hate… 

and using those words, often on people they don’t even know,

to demean, belittle and humiliate.

We’re sad when we see this hatred bleeds into our daily lives… 

adding to others…suffering, pain and torment

It’s even sadder when this behavior is encouraged

by our politicians…and our president.

It’s difficult to combat bullying and hate…

It is a full time job…

It cannot be done individually

which is why we’ve joined 

The Kindness Mob.

After seeing how easily people jumped on the bandwagon of hate

In 2023, Tyler, at that time filled with dread.

thought…what if he formed a different bandwagon 

a bandwagon of kindness instead.

His idea was to find those people on the internet being bullied,

whose comments some people fill with hatred and animosity….

and encourage others  to fill their comments 

with kind thoughts and positivity.

Everyday Tyler selects one person…

nominated by a member of the mob

and encourages us to send them words of kindness… 

anonymously…

call it…an inside job.

So we have joined the Kindness Mob…

we’re now proudly part of the Kindness crew…

because if we are ever to do away with hate…

we start by sharing more support and kindness too.

And that is what we do…

for we think the world can only be great…

If we spend more time on kindness…

and less time on hate.

FULL MOON

 

When I stepped out on our porch this morning…

into a brisk autumnal breeze

I noticed there was a full moon…

peeking over the trees. 

And I thought how our eyes can be deceiving…

because as I watched the moon from the sky fall…

even though I know she’s huge…

she looked rather small. 

And I wondered how this little glowing sphere

while in the sky she lingers

can illuminate the entire world

when I can measure her between two fingers.

And how something I can hold in the palm of my hand

can return to shine each night…that eternal glowing star

to illuminate the land, the sky the seas, the animals, the people

No matter what or who they are

And I thought how the moon is a lot like our heart

not very big or heavy when measured or weighed

but able to illuminate our family and friends

with rays of love…that never fade.

And I wished all our hearts were more like the moon

that from the moment of our birth…

we would shine the light of our love 

on every plant

every animal

ever person

blessed to have been placed upon this Earth.

That our love would be more like that ever glowing star

Covering every plant

every animal

every person on this planet.

No matter who or what they are.

I BELIEVE IN YOU

 

 Have you ever noticed 

as each day you grow

how far in life you are able to go

how much more you are able to do

If you have someone in your life

someone…who believes in you?

And have you also noticed…

when it comes to your friends and family

as each day they grow

how far in life they are able to go…

how much more they are able to do

If they have someone in their life

someone…who believes in them too?

Isn’t it amazing…

of all the things we can say or do…

how much we can enhance a life

with just four words…

I believe in you?