Tuesday, October 27, 2026

EVERY DAY BLIND DATE

 

I have a special relationship that begins each morning 

after the moon has set. 

What makes this relationship special?

It’s with a bird I’ve never met.


She’s the first bird of the morning..

with whom my life is intertwined…

the early bird who begins to sing

in the silence the owls and crickets leave behind.


With all the other birds still sleeping…

their heads snug beneath their wings

this bird I’ve never seen before

each day begins to sing. 


I’ve often wondered in the dark…

how does this bird know…

the morning is approaching

before the sun begins to glow?


But she does…her instincts must be strong…

and I imagine she’s as happy singing…

as I am to hear her song.

This is why after waking I hurry outside

because I don’t want to be late…

and miss the morning song

of my everyday blind date.



Monday, October 26, 2026

THE KINDNESS MOB

 

We’re sad when we see people hiding behind the anonymity of the internet…

spewing words of loathing, animosity and hate… 

and using those words, often on people they don’t even know,

to demean, belittle and humiliate.


We’re sad when we see this hatred bleeds into our daily lives… 

adding to others…suffering, pain and torment

It’s even sadder when this behavior is encouraged

by our politicians…and our president.


It’s difficult to combat bullying and hate…

It is a full time job…

It cannot be done individually

which is why we’ve joined 

The Kindness Mob.


After seeing how easily people jumped on the bandwagon of hate

In 2023, Tyler, at that time filled with dread.

thought…what if he formed a different bandwagon 

a bandwagon of kindness instead.


His idea was to find those people on the internet being bullied,

whose comments some people fill with hatred and animosity….

and encourage others  to fill their comments 

with kind thoughts and positivity.


Everyday Tyler selects one person…

nominated by a member of the mob

and encourages us to send them words of kindness… 

anonymously…

call it…an inside job.


So we have joined the Kindness Mob…

we’re now proudly part of the Kindness crew…

because if we are ever to do away with hate…

we start by sharing more support and kindness too.


And that is what we do…

for we think the world can only be great…

If we spend more time on kindness…

and less time on hate.


Sunday, October 25, 2026

FULL MOON

 

When I stepped out on our porch this morning…

into a brisk autumnal breeze

I noticed there was a full moon…

peeking over the trees. 


And I thought how our eyes can be deceiving…

because as I watched the moon from the sky fall…

even though I know she’s huge…

she looked rather small. 


And I wondered how this little glowing sphere

while in the sky she lingers

can illuminate the entire world

when I can measure her between two fingers.


And how something I can hold in the palm of my hand

can return to shine each night…that eternal glowing star

to illuminate the land, the sky the seas, the animals, the people

No matter what or who they are


And I thought how the moon is a lot like our heart

not very big or heavy when measured or weighed

but able to illuminate our family and friends

with rays of love…that never fade.


And I wished all our hearts were more like the moon

that from the moment of our birth…

we would shine the light of our love 

on every plant

every animal

ever person

blessed to have been placed upon this Earth.


That our love would be more like that ever glowing star

Covering every plant

every animal

every person on this planet.


No matter who or what they are.


Saturday, October 24, 2026

I BELIEVE IN YOU

 

 Have you ever noticed 


as each day you grow

how far in life you are able to go


how much more you are able to do

If you have someone in your life


someone…who believes in you?


And have you also noticed…


when it comes to your friends and family

as each day they grow

how far in life they are able to go…


how much more they are able to do

If they have someone in their life


someone…who believes in them too?


Isn’t it amazing…

of all the things we can say or do…

how much we can enhance a life

with just four words…


I believe in you?


Friday, October 23, 2026

EVERYBODY EATS


I like to think I’m ‘woke’ at least I try

to fight oppression to promote diversity, equity and inclusion

(also known as DEI).


As I look around at our political system…and the ruin that befell

I have a hard time understanding why everyone…isn’t woke as well…. 


We returned to Rosetta’s Kitchen for lunch the other day…

It’s tucked between old buildings down one of Asheville’s busy streets.

we like the food they offer…but more than that

we love their philosophy…

Everybody Eats!


Their mission is to feed everybody…

with their vegan/vegetarian cuisine

from the wealthy 

to the homeless 

and everyone in between.


They ask for donations from those who have the means to pay…

so they can provide the homeless and others…healthy meals every day.


They are doing their part…to make a kinder more compassionate world

by feeding people living on the streets…

showing the rest of us what humanity looks like…

with Everybody Eats.


I wish we were all a little more like Rosetta’s Kitchen…

that we had their compassion, their empathy, their tenderness…

If we did then maybe our world…wouldn’t be in such a mess!


For I have no doubt America and the world could truly be great…

If everybody felt loved

felt welcomed

felt included

had clothes to wear

had a place to live…


if everybody ate.

 

Wednesday, October 21, 2026

BRAIDS

 

It doesn’t matter when…it doesn’t matter where

But I always smile when I see any man, woman 

or child with braided hair


Because it reminds me how across indigenous cultures 

these beautiful braids are worn

as a tribute to women…from whom all creation is born. 


The wisdom of these cultures is both sensible and broad

they understand how women…are the next best thing to God.


So they wear their braids to honor women…every mother…every wife

to show their gratitude to the people…who give the gift of life.


Each braid consists of three strands…honoring women is their goal

one represents the mind

one represents the body

and one represents the soul.


These three strands are plaited together so when the braiding’s done

there is a living link to all their women ancestors…coming together as one.


This is why I smile…when I see how each twists of hair cascades

when I think of how they honor their women

It makes me love the symbolism of the braids.


We live in a world where to these indigenous values many do not adhere…

where women feel vulnerable…are threatened…harassed and raped

where many of them live in fear.


Where many men have forgotten to honor every women…every mother…every wife

forgotten to show gratitude to those who give us life.


Forgotten to cherish the ones who first teach us to care for one another…

forgotten there is a reason we call our planet…Mother.


Perhaps we should use the three strands of the indigenous braids…

To remind us…again…and again…and again…

How we are born of women

raised by women

And we are who how we are…because of them.


It’s time we honor our women…

It’s time their dignity and humanity we preserve…

It’s time we find a way to braid into our lives

the respect they all deserve